1. “Look good”
Men are visual beings, work on the first thing a man sees when he looks at you. Highlight what is unique to you, dress appropriately for your body.
2. “Smell good”
Looking good will pull him towards you, smelling good will excite him.
3. “Smile sincerely in front of him”
When a woman smiles and shows warmth in front of a man, it encourages him to dig a little deeper.
4. “Make his work progressively easy”
Work with him, he cannot make any inch closer to you without your help.
5. “Show him you respect yourself”
When a man sees the woman respecting herself, he sees in her a woman worth the effort. He wants someone grown, who can hold her own; a woman with values and principles.
6. “Throw him hints”
Even though it’s the man’s role to pursue the woman, she should signal him that she wants to be hunted. Use suggestive words to him, throw a hint about what you like, indirectly tell him your preferences, he will get the point.
7. “Be real with him”
You expect him to impress you by him being real and so you make him fall for you by being real, don’t pretend to be the woman you are not.
8. “Be available but not desperate”
When he asks you out, make time. Pick up his phone calls, let him be able to reach you but don’t become possessive too early in his pursuit of you. A woman who appears to be desperate and in a rush confuses the man or even worse makes him hold back to stop or find a new pace.
9. “Reward him”
When he does something good for you, acknowledge it. Say thank you, let him know he is on the right track.
10. “Ask him questions”
Men love it when the woman also shows interest in him. Don’t make it always about you.
11. “Surprise him”
Suddenly plant a kiss on his cheek, buy him a nice gift, do something that shows you also got game. Men love a woman who can match their charm.
12. “Trust him”
The more a man feels the woman trusts him, the more he gets to trust her. Woman, you hold the secret to trust, he also has fears. Just like you are taking a risk in engaging him, he is taking a risk in pursuing you.
13. “Give him the best hugs”
Tight and intimate hugs plant the right ideas in a man. He begins to want the woman more, to wonder what treasures lie ahead as he gets closer to her heart.
14. “Be there for him”
When he sees he can depend on you it stops being about a race to your heart but a connection with your heart. He melts for you even more when he feels that you care.
15. “Work with his pace”
Some men are slow at committing, others fast. Show him that you understand his pace.
16. “Give him a peek at a possible future with you”
Talk a lot about the future, allow him to visualize where you will be in the future and signal how it would be good to have him around. Expose him to the coming benefits and privileges if in case you two have a future together. If you are a good cook, make him amazing meals; if you are good at managing, show him how organized his future can be with you in the picture.
17. “Single him out”
Cut off his competition for him, men may not express it but they get insecure when they are trying so hard to get to a lady but she doesn’t look like she is paying attention.
18. “Be miss-able”
Be busy living your life, that means sometimes he will not be able to talk to you because you are rightly involved in something like work, school or building friendships. That way he will miss you a lot and appreciate your company especially if when you are with him you give him a great and stress-free time.
19. “Tease him”
Arouse his curiosity.
20. “Gently correct him”
The woman who can confront a man when he goes wrong is extremely valuable to him. She has proven that she has his back.
21. “Show him he needs you”
Get him to that point where he knows for sure you add value to his life.
22. “Be lovable”
If you appear difficult to love he will judge that you don’t need him in your life. Before even saying ‘I love you’ love should be evident.
23. “Remember it’s all about your character”
The man can have feelings for you, the man can be attracted to you, he can be falling in love with you but if the man is seriously looking for a life partner, your character will determine it all. After all, you too are serious about your future and so you too are looking at his character to determine if a future together will hold or not.
COURTESY : Dayan Masinde